Cry Baby No More

      Sometimes we feel miserable because of the unpleasant things that are happening in our lives. We often isolate ourselves thinking that we’re different and that everybody seems to be happy except ourselves. Well, this is true I guess. I always find myself in this situation. I would scream and even question the heavens for problems that have been coming to me. I almost always ask, why me? There are hundred billions of people in world, am I the chosen one?

      For years that has been my dilemma, not actually facing my problems but rather complaining first instead of finding ways to solve them. I would cry like a baby and let things happen without me doing anything. But I guess fate has its own way of changing everything. As I continue my journey in finding my true happiness, I encountered many more important lessons in life that has helped me and in a way improved my perspective about what life is really all about. From my journey, I noticed that I was not alone. I’m not the only one who has a problem. My problem is just small for me to complain about. I’ve seen bigger problems from other people but they are not complaining. They are still standing though struggling but still battling every second to overcome their problems. Actually compared to them I must say I’m luckier. My problems that I have been complaining are not even half or close to what they are encountering now. Boom, there I realized that I’m still lucky and that I have to be thankful for whatever that comes my way. I’ve been an asshole and yes I will still be one but I’ve learned my lessons.  I will not change everything but would be more mature in dealing with my problems. Thank God, I’m still breathing, one thing I could be thankful about.

      Problems will come and arise, we can’t control them but we can overcome them for sure. Dealing it the right way I guess is the best way to win it over. Though hard but at the end of it, is a life fulfilling accomplishment that you were able to face your problem and overcome it. Huh, again, thank God I’m still alive.