Many will surely react on this idea that long distance relationship just won’t work. I guess for some it’s a given, love just won’t endure distance and time all at the same time. It’s a total waste of time to be longing to someone who is 10 seas and approximately 25 mountains away from you.
But for some hopeless romantics, patience, love, trust and honesty are all you need to make it all work. Of course, why not, it could be; but definitely not an assurance that this so called I love you coming from the two sides of the world will surely work on your advantage and eventually save the relationship.
Well dream on! Grab the stars in the sky, sing a damn lullaby and cross the distant mountains, it just won’t happen. Here are some reasons why you shouldn’t even attempt to put your emotion on the line or even be in a long distance relationship. Read. Understand. Survive. And live to tell your story!
1) There is a definite reason why he/she is on that country. How long can you take that you’re just his/her second, third or even last priority on his/her list?
2) You’ll never know when will you see each other again or perhaps will there be even a chance? Risk everything but not your emotion and time my dear.
3) Again the same old problem…understanding each other. How in the hell will you find someone as understanding as a stupid guy madly in love to understand everything when you’re on two different continents of the world?
4) There are better people around you. Look, stop and date all you want because they might just be living a city away and not a country away. Explore more but not the world for that ultimate dream girl or guy in your life.
5) It’s financially damaging…probably one of the lousiest excuses but checking reality, its true. You need to check on your financial status because you might end up your whole life savings for call cards, Internet bills and I love you and miss you greeting cards.
6) After getting a hang of it, you’ll eventually settle for a given day and time to talk since your emotions are all already in place. Ok, a regular schedule in other words is on the making. It could be 6 times a week if still new and madly attached to each other, then after sometime, 3 times a week will be fine since we both have work. Fair enough? Eventually in no time, it could be thrice a month…twice a month…once every two months…and before you know it, it could be once every blue moon? Great and without you noticing it, the love you’ve been dying to have from the start will sooner or later fade with the months and years of no consistent communication.
7) If you have no plans on going abroad or simply, you can’t live if not in the country of your origin, don’t even attempt to try it.
8) Being a jealous and a possessive person are two good reasons why you shouldn’t bother to start a long distance relationship. Self-explanatory I guess!
9) If you’re the type who can’t abstain sex. Go to hell, this definitely won’t work for you.
10) Lastly, if you have a kid and legally separated. Don’t make things complicated. Right? See, she agrees!
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